This is the story of how minimizing my closet changed my life.
I had a big move back in August of last year and knew I was going to have to purge a few items. You know, the usual stuff - useless decor that collects dust, that weird coffee mug your grandma sent you for your birthday, the oil warmer you bought at some boutique but never really used, a few pair of shoes,
the workout equipment (and DVD's) you swore you would use to get your sexy back, and, of course, inevitably, clothes.
Ah, the purging of the closet. One of the hardest and most stressful things to
ever do. (Ladies, am I right?!) I knew I would have to let go of a few items and was prepared to do just that. As I began thinking about what sweater to give away and what brand name blouse to try to sell, I stumbled across a Facebook post from Denaye with
Dallas Moms Blog called
"Why I Got Rid of My Wardrobe." Obviously, I was intrigued. The blog mentions the idea of a capsule wardrobe and cited the blog
Unfancy as a great resource. Again, I was intrigued.
I immediately started reading up on this idea of a capsule wardrobe. According to Caroline, the blogger of
Unfancy, a capsule wardrobe is
"a mini wardrobe made up of really versatile pieces that you totally LOVE to wear." As I continued reading her blog, it seemed like Caroline was speaking right to me:
"Ever buy some fun new clothes, but end up wearing your old favorites anyway?"
Yeah, that sounds about right...
"Ever go to your closet and feel like you have nothing to wear, even when your closet is filled with clothes?"
Caroline, how did you know???
After reading up on the capsule wardrobe concept, I started to have some doubts. Could I really let go of ALL those clothes and minimize my closet? Naturally, as any smart woman does, I shared the idea with my girl friend Sara. (She is a lover of clothes, just like me!) Sara was excited about the idea and encouraged me to jump right in. So I did!
I began researching more about capsule wardrobes and what various people say about it. There are several ideas out there and lots recipes and formulas to follow. At the end of the day, you have to find what works best for you and your lifestyle. Being a teacher, I have two wardrobes - one for work and one for outside of work (which I call my play wardrobe). My closet was FULL (literally) of a variety of pants, dresses, blouses, tanks, cardigans, etc. You name it, it was in my closet. But how was I going to pair down so many clothes to fit my work and play lifestyle?
I used the
practices Caroline has worked through to help guide my purging process. I also used her
free wardrobe planner to help me get started building my new wardrobes.
Remember - there is no right way to build a capsule wardrobe. It is a process to minimize your closet, not some step-by-step rule book.
I started with my work wardrobe. My new job required me to purchase some new wardrobe items so I was excited to test out the capsule concept here. I began planning out my wardrobe and was thoughtful about what I wanted to buy. I bought staple pieces. I kept with neutral colors (with a few fun patterns mixed in.) I was purposeful with my purchases. I made sure each skirt, pant, shirt, and cardigan could be mixed and matched multiple times. I narrowed down my shoe and accessory collection to items that were simple and versatile. All in all, I am VERY happy with how my wardrobe turned out!!
Now, my play wardrobe was a different story. I looked at my closet and was overwhelmed by the magnitude of clothes I had accumulated over the years. Why did I always think I had nothing to wear?? I began with my winter clothes. I took every winter item out of my closet and immediately put them in storage containers. I looked at my closet - a fourth of it was gone! There were empty hangers on the rack! Hooray!!! I had space in my closet!! (I thought it would be smart to give myself a boost of confidence before actually having to let go of things…)
I applied the same idea to the rest of my closet. And, no, I didn't just put clothes in storage. I went through, section by section, and set clothes aside that were too worn, too old, out of style, didn't fit, or simply weren't versatile enough for my capsule wardrobe. I kept clothes that I loved, were staple wardrobe pieces, and were flexible enough to be worn with a variety of items. I even had my roommate, Renee, sit with me to help me decide what pieces to keep and what pieces to let go. I didn't stick to a number. I kept what I knew I would wear and could make multiple outfits from.
Y'all - I got rid of over 180 items of clothing/shoes/accessories!!!
If you know me, you know this is HUGE! I cannot tell you how amazing it feels to have let go of so much. Throughout this process, I realized how much I want to minimize the "stuff" in my life. I realized I didn't need "things" to make me happy. The truth is, the more things I had the more stressful and cluttered life got. I was an emotional shopper who found comfort in filling life's voids with designer shoes and brand name outfits. Minimizing my closet changed my life.
Now, I don't have to stress about getting dressed in the mornings. The extra time it took me to try on 15 different outfits is now be spent actually
living in the mornings. I get up, make a delicious cup of coffee, and genuinely enjoy quality time with the best conversationalist, my Lord and Savior.
